Do not waste your time on me

Putting an effort on someone who doesn’t think  they are good enough for you, will not lead anywhere. You do not have to convince someone to love you.

You cannot force someone to be with you or to feel the same way you do, no matter how much you want them to be a part of your life. Genuine relationships happen naturally without much being done.

Is it a fear of being alone? Is that what causes us to be eager to create these friendships with people who don’t want to do the same? There is no use  giving your love to someone who doesn’t deserve it. They won’t take care of it and you will just get hurt.

When you’re in a relationship that doesn’t bring any value to your life, you will realise that it’s not where you belong. Choose the people who would be willing to choose you back. You deserve better and the sooner you are aware of that, the better. You can only attract that which you believe in.

Imagine convincing someone to be in a relationship with you. They won’t be what you want and therefore, won’t treat you with care. You will constantly create excuses for them while they keep doing you wrong. What you two have will end up being toxic. Never be too desperate to be with someone to an extent where you need to settle for less.

If someone ever tells you that you shouldn’t waste your time on them, listen and pay attention. It might be that they are saying so because they have issues of their own. You don’t want to bring someone into your space who will make you unhappy. Maybe they need to see someone and get the necessary help.