Wasted all these tears on you

Loving someone is all great but when you are involved with a person who brings you nothing but pain, it’s not.

You deserve the right person who treats you with respect.

It hurts when you are in a relationship with someone who does not appreciate you or the things that you do for them. They take you for granted and they don’t support you like you do, to them.

You go to sleep every night crying because you feel as if what you’re doing is not enough for them. You try to make things work but they never seem to notice or pay attention. Have you ever planned a romantic dinner and let them know about it? They come back home after hours and make excuses. You look  them straight in the eyes and there is absolutely no remorse for what they’ve done. These are some of the things that should tell you that you’re wasting your tears on someone who doesn’t even care about your feelings.

There is a limit to how many times you try to make things work in a relationship. You don’t want to be where you’re not a priority and aren’t valued. You need to learn to put yourself first before anyone else. You deserve so much better than someone who doesn’t treat you well. The tears you must have are those of joy.

Once people reach a point where they realise that they have wasted their time and tears on someone, they start to blame themselves and think that they were stupid not to see the signs. Beating yourself up because of what happened will not make things better. You need a way forward and move on with your life. It’s better that you were able to realise it and wouldn’t have been with someone your entire life who was never going to be good to you.

Start telling yourself that you are deserving of good things and you are worth it. Things will work out for you and some day you will end up with a partner that loves you the way you are.