Willing to walk away from her

It’s brave of you to even get to a point where you are ready to walk away from her. It shows that you know what you want in your life.

Having made that decision shows that you have the power. It might not have been easy but sometimes we hold onto people even though we know that all love is lost. It can be that you’re still with her because you feel bad that she might not be able to handle not having you in your life. If she is someone who gets depressed easily, you might be afraid you’ll blame yourself should that happen. It would eat you up and take you some time to get over. You’d go back because you feel guilty.

You must be open to looking into the future and not at what’s in front of you. Be brave enough to realise that things are not working between you and her and the only solution is to walk away. This can be scary if all you’ve known is her love. Life has a lot in store for you and all you have to do is to take the first step.

When you’ve done so, you will prove to yourself that you can be independent. You can be your own person and not depend on her. Some partners will make you feel guilty for even thinking of breaking up with them. They say things such as, “You are nobody without me because there is no one that can tolerate you like me”. Do not give into such comments.

Walking away shows that you are confident about the decision that you have made. You know that it’s the right thing to do and you will benefit from it in the future. Don’t look down on yourself; you are strong to have walked away when you could. You are not afraid of what the future holds for you, and you believe that things will work out.